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Twisted Love
Relationships, boundary setting, attachment, intimacy, and communication protocols.


Rewriting the Narratives in Your Relationship
Your relationship fights are a biological hijack. Learn how to stop your brain's survival scripts, physically calm your body, and rebuild real trust.
Jasen Eberz, LCSW
Jun 26


Should I Stay or Should I Go?: Evaluating how healthy your relationship is.
Trapped in a loop of "Should I stay or should I go?" Run your relationship through the raw clinical data. Learn how neurochemistry, Gottman’s conflict ratios, and Rusbult’s investment metrics decide your commitment. Complete our interactive worksheet to audit your relational viability without the toxic positivity fluff.
Jasen Eberz, LCSW
Jun 4


Couples Communication Protocol
Interpersonal exchange is impossible without physiological homeostasis. Stop the biological hijack with clinical protocols and interactive de-escalation worksheets for heteronormative and LGBTQIA+ relationships.
Jasen Eberz, LCSW
Apr 21


Rebuilding Trust in Relationships
The science says about rebuilding trust and offers concrete, therapist-informed steps you and your partner can take, whether you’re healing from a single rupture or a long pattern of disconnection.
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Nov 19, 2025


Sexual Brakes & Accelerators
Your accelerator responds to erotic and emotional “green lights,” while your brake system downshifts when there’s stress, conflict, shame, etc. This article helps to explore your partner's patterns with curiosity - rather than pressure to improve intimacy.
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Oct 23, 2025


Values-Based Boundaries with Friends, Family, and Partners: How to Set Them, and Keep
When people say “just set boundaries,” it can sound like one more thing you’re failing at. Here’s the reframe: boundaries aren’t walls; they’re commitments to live your values in real time. In Acceptance & Commitment Therapy (ACT), values are chosen directions (not goals) that guide behavior under stress; acting from values—especially when it’s uncomfortable—predicts better psychological flexibility and well-being. MDPI+4PMC+4IJPSY+4 DBT adds the “how”: skills for asking,
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Oct 22, 2025


6 Signs of a Healthy Relationship According to Science
The following information was initially obtained from the video below and expanded upon with linked peer reviewed journal articles. #Healthy_relationships_according_to_science https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT6bTvvFE/ Strong relationships aren’t just feel-good—they’re foundational to both emotional and physical well-being. Here are six key signs that your partnership is thriving, each grounded in peer-reviewed science. 1. Mutual Support Fuels Growth Why it matters: When partners
Jasen Eberz, LCSW
Aug 27, 2025


🧭 Why Do I Attract Abusive or Unhealthy People?
Understanding the patterns—and learning how to change them. You’re not alone if you’ve found yourself in more than one unhealthy or abusive relationship. Many people ask, “Why do I keep attracting these kinds of people?” This question is a powerful step toward insight, healing, and self-protection. Below are some common contributing factors, reading recommendations, and articles to help you begin making sense of your experiences and develop safer, more fulfilling relationship
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Jul 31, 2025


How to Apologize Sincerely: The A.I.M.S. Framework
Intro Apologies are more than just saying “sorry”—they can rebuild trust, foster empathy, and promote forgiveness. Research shows the most effective apologies include four elements: A – Acknowledge your role I – Identify the impact M – Map your triggers S – State your solution Let’s dive into each step and explore how the scientific literature confirms their power. A – Acknowledge your role (Accountability) Owning up to your part—without excuses—is essential. Experimental dat
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Jun 12, 2025
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